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		<title>Things change, yet they stay the same</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2011 20:23:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gone &#8211; flitted away. Taken the stars from the night and the sun from the day! Gone, and a cloud in my heart. ~Alfred, Lord Tennyson Ethan, today, as I recognize the 4th anniversary of your death, as always, you are missed with every fiber of my being. Even after so many years have passed, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stephaniecooper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5777854&amp;post=698&amp;subd=stephaniecooper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Every new beginning comes from some other beginning&#8217;s end</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Dec 2010 23:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephanie Cooper</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been quite some time since I posted anything new in this blog.  There are many reasons for this which I won&#8217;t bore you with, however, the biggest reason is that, well, I&#8217;ve gotten to a place where my &#8220;new discoveries&#8221; regarding my grief journey have simply gotten fewer and further in between. It&#8217;s not [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stephaniecooper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5777854&amp;post=690&amp;subd=stephaniecooper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Time, time, time&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Oct 2010 15:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Who would have thought that I would learn something valuable by watching my 5 year old surf the internet? Yesterday morning while observing her playing a game on a kids&#8217; web-site, I noticed how she handled the &#8220;download time&#8221; by enthusiastically counting down with the timer on the screen.  It was as if the waiting [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stephaniecooper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5777854&amp;post=686&amp;subd=stephaniecooper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Grief and Justice (survey)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2010 22:08:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m currently conducting a survey in order to gather information for an upcoming article that I am writing. If you are a widow or widower whose spouse died as a result of a crime or accident caused by another person, please take a moment to participate in my brief survey about justice and grief. Thank [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stephaniecooper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5777854&amp;post=672&amp;subd=stephaniecooper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Tell it like it is: Say what you mean, mean what you say&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://stephaniecooper.wordpress.com/2010/06/09/tell-it-like-it-is-say-what-you-mean-mean-what-you-say/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 20:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephanie Cooper</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;The difference between the right word and almost the right word, is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug&#8221;. ~ Mark Twain. The responsibility of being understood lies on the shoulders of the one who is attempting to communicate the message.  Choose your words wisely, otherwise, do not be disappointed when the person who [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stephaniecooper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5777854&amp;post=664&amp;subd=stephaniecooper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Widowhood SUX</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 17:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephanie Cooper</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check out Widowhood SUX.  Oh, you&#8217;re a widow, too?  See how you can  Contribute. Because widowhood really SUX&#8230;<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stephaniecooper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5777854&amp;post=651&amp;subd=stephaniecooper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Memorial Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 18:48:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Memorial Day, take the time to remember the fallen, those who have made the ultimate sacrifice.  And, please, show your support for those loved ones &#8211; wives, husbands, children, mothers, fathers, siblings, friends &#8211; that are left behind in the wake of military loss.  Regardless of your political affiliation or your position on our [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stephaniecooper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5777854&amp;post=635&amp;subd=stephaniecooper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What&#8217;s new Wednesday&#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 21:44:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m excited to let you all know that I am now a contributor to the wonderful website Open to Hope. Some of the articles posted will be blog posts you&#8217;ve read here, but I intend to create original content that I hope they will post as well. You can view my page, and check out [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stephaniecooper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5777854&amp;post=628&amp;subd=stephaniecooper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>No one believed the water would come</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 May 2010 04:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No one could have predicted what happened here in Nashville this weekend.  Unrelenting rains over a 48 hour period finally stopped, but Mother Nature was not finished.  As the waters ran off from hills and ditches into creeks and from creeks into rivers, the peaceful, lazy rivers that wind through this wonderful city began to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stephaniecooper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5777854&amp;post=620&amp;subd=stephaniecooper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Tell it like it is</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 21:56:23 +0000</pubDate>
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